Playing with Fire
Fireplay is a captivating, spellbinding, and extraordinary form of play in BDSM. Embracing the risk of flames caressing one's body can ignite a deeply sensual and exhilarating experience. Despite initial trepidations, people often find these sensations surprisingly gentle yet imbued with an electrifying intensity and dynamic vigor.
Fireplay sessions inherently embody an element of unpredictability and danger, invoking a dramatic essence. For the person stroking another's skin with fiery torches, this practice demands technical skills, strong attentiveness, and deep immersion. Through dedicated practice, both participants can experience a profound connection and trust with each other in this fiery dance of play.
In this 3-hour workshop, you will:
- Learn essential tools and techniques of fireplay.
- Discuss crucial safety measures involved in this play.
- Gain insights into how you can create your own session/ritual.
- Practice helpful and clear communication (verbal and non-verbal) before and during the
session. - Explore what happens on the receiver/bottom side and how they can contribute to a
successful fireplay session. - Enjoy opportunities for experimentation and practice.
You will need to bring:
- A cotton blanket or a large towel.
- If you have long hair, something to tie it up.
Sadistic Desires: Creating Connection through Pain
Join us for a transformative 2-hour workshop where we open up a safe and supportive container for the exploration of our sadistic appetites.
Our aim is to empower you to embrace these impulses without feeling ashamed or guilty, while also understanding and satisfying each other's needs in our play.
What do you really need to navigate your sadistic desires? How can you feel safe enough to unleash your inner beast or monster in a controlled way? How can we deepen our connection through the exploration of pain?
We'll demonstrate practical scenarios and offer exercises so you can gain insights into navigating this complex and paradoxical terrain in a lighthearted and playful way.
Through the "Take-Allow" dynamic from the Wheel of Consent, we will address the concept of "taking for your personal benefit" while ensuring the integrity of the partner's limits.
You'll learn practical strategies for communicating effectively, for co-creating hot and intimate encounters, and for cultivating deeper connections through the exploration of intense sensations.
The Unveiling
The Unveiling is a slow ritual undressing of clothes and the social layers beneath which we exist.
In this ritual we dive into the affects of touch, exploring the skin as continuous, through the orifices of the mouth, nose, anus and into the digestive tract.
The session will guided as a somatic meditation in which we will focus on sustaining slow continuous pressure as we slide along the surfaces of the ground, ourselves, the fabric of our clothes.
As slowly as possible will undress ourselves and each other, pausing just at times to see and be seen.
Face-sitting: An Introduction to Female Domination
Would you like to explore your dominant side? Or are you curious about your submissive side?
Then this explicit workshop by Shirka & Till is tailored for you!
Come in pairs, but please note: Doms – only individuals with vulvas & Subs – individuals with faces!
We provide guidance and create a safe space for you to step out of your comfort zone and bring to life fantasies of female dominance and male submission.
You don’t have to conform to stereotypes; you can play your role as it suits you.
In this workshop:
- We discuss desires and fantasies. We practice negotiation, consent, and communication within the scene.
- We delve into the dominant/submissive roles and energy through brief exercises.
- The facilitators demonstrate a step-by-step play script.
- We enact this playscript (or parts of it) and conclude with free play.